Chris is not the one using those kids. He comes over and spends NO time with those kids. He wants to be in the same room as Chris or asleep on the couch. He has been telling her that he left you and wants to make things work. He wants to have to cake and be able to eat it too. If he is trying to do right by his kids, then why does he not spend time with them, not go to school activities, programs or plays that they are in, return their phone calls and emails, pay his child support (on time), purchase his owns Christmas gifts/birthday gifts. Why was he never home for them. Why was his "friends" more important to him. Why would he blame his own son for stealing his crack pipe. Girl, you have no idea. His daughter cries herself to sleep because she tries to call "daddy" before bed and he does not answer the phone. Why does she cry to me and her Uncle Allen as to her "daddy's" where abouts anasks us why daddy does not love her, Mitch or Mommy anymore. He is the one who lied, hid money away from his familly, denied the children the right to have a father whom cared enough to tell them the truth (now he continues to lead the children on the Chrissy and him are going to get back together and make things right). He is messing with those sweet childrens heads.
Does your husband know that you were lying to him and doing the same? What type of Christian does that make you? The bible talks about adultry and both of you did it. It talks about lies and you both did. It talks about deceit and you both have. It talks about lust and you both did. No matter how you want to dress this up in your minds, in the eyes of God you both need to make things right, seek his forgiveness and admit for once what was and is going on to Chris. He wants to state how he is a father. Any man can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a DADDY!!!! You have no idea how much paper work, notes, lies, photos ect I have here in my home about all of his lies to both of you.
That text the you say was sent by Chris-WAS NEVER SENT BY HER. Maybe you should start asking him questions. If you think he will not do the same to you, if another pussy comes along, than you are mistaken. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Chris wants to talk to you, not over the computer, as woman. I think since you cheated with her exhusband (which came out of both of yours deceit) you owe her that. Since he wants to be a pussy and not tell her the truth, then someone does.
By the way, we know your husbands name, phone number and address. If you do not contact Chris we will be contacting him. The truth will come out. We also know your email at work, where you work, and where you have lived (addresses) for the past ten years. The internet is an amazing thing, isn't it.
Naomijennifer TeStruth
Dear Naomi, Yes, I am with Donny.We have been friends for a long time and I let him sort out his life a few times.He came back to me and said he wanted "ME". If he wanted to go home, he had several chances to do that, and I would have let him go. NObody owns anybody and nobody can hold anybody to them.I read Chris's text message about wanting him, and not wanting to mess up a chance to be with him.If he wants her and she wants him, what the hell is holding them back??? This makes no sense to me. I know he did not set clear boundaries with her, and was afraid she would keep him from seeing the kids.I heard a voicemail from her, and she seems to use Shayna to pull at his heartstrings, knowing how much he loves his kids.He still will provide for them and take care of them, and this is what is most important. I saw a divorce online between them, and this is public record, so I proceeded with our relationship, feeling that she had let him go.A divorce is final, and people should not use this as an ultimatum tool.Divorce shows the other person and the world, that you no longer want them.If you divorce someone, you than move on with your life plain and simple.There should be no going back and forth, and kids should not be used as pawns.
I commend Chris on being a good mom, Donny never said anything bad about her.Yes, he is at fault for not setting her straight, but fear can make a person hold back from telling the truth, and he was afraid to lose his kids to a stricter visitation schedule, which I hope she will not do to him out of vengeance. If he wants her, and she wants him, than so be it,the lord has a plan for us all.If it was not meant to be, than I am sure Chris will move on and find a good Christian guy with the same goals as she has.
God bless, and take care of yourself
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